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Monday, February 22, 2010

Memories

Please share your stories and memories of our dad in the comment section.

28 comments:

Me said...

my fondest memory was when he watched Rambo: First Blood with me.

Belinda said...

I loved his quirky wit! He could always make me laugh. He will be fondly remembered and greatly missed! What a beautiful legacy he leaves. A tribute to both him and Kim.
Belinda Barlet

Skip Lonie said...

I didn't know of a kinder more gentel man. A man whose knowledge about the scriptures always left me speachless i will miss my Brother Dick Young

Skip Lonie

Michael Haz said...

Dick Young was one of the finest, most ethical, and smartest men I have ever known, in the workplace or otherwise. He will be deeply missed in our household.

Belinda said...

Dick was so sharp intellectually and his sense of humor was finely honed. He always made me think and he usually made me smile and he often made me laugh. Dick was a disciple of Christ and his actions and words left absolutely no doubt of that. He strengthened my testimony as he lived and shared his own. And there is nothing in this world more important that could be said of any of us than that. I'll miss you Dick. Bill Barlet

Michael Haz said...

Dear Kim,

The news of Dick’s passing has brought back many memories of the years when Dick and I worked together. I’d like to share my favorite one with you.

AMB had decided to hire an attorney for in-house legal matters. A corporate recruiter had been retained to find the best person for the job. After interviewing quite a few candidates, it became apparent that Dick was the right man for the job.

A final interview was arranged in order that those of us who managed various departments could meet and interview Dick before an offer of employment was made. These interviews are never fun; the candidate gets moved from office to office, and is asked the same questions over and over by a series of complete strangers. It is a tiring process, no matter the level of enthusiasm.

I was the last person to interview Dick on that day. It was the end of the day, he was affable but tired. And I had had a long day in an even longer week and was likewise tired. I decided to be low key and just ask a Dick a few questions about his background, and perhaps chat for a while about families, church, work, other things we might have in common.

At some point I asked him why he’d want to leave Colorado for a job in Milwaukee. I was curious about this because I had seen both Colorado and Milwaukee, and Colorado was a lot nicer, in my opinion.

Dick said that there was family in Wisconsin. He said that his wife had relatives in the area. And he said that his wife had grown up in Hales Corners, a suburb of Milwaukee, and had graduated from Whitnall High School.

Now that was interesting, and it perked me up because I had also graduated from Whitnall High School, something Dick didn’t know. I instantly went through the mental Rolodex of possibilities as to who might he be married to.

So I looked him right in the eyes and asked “And how is Kim?”

His jaw dropped. He was speechless for the first time during the interview. His eyes got really wide. He stammered.

I quickly explained that Kim Murphy was a high school classmate who I knew belonged to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and that I had simply made a lucky guess about his being married to her. What an astonishingly small world!

The interview ice was broken, and we laughed and talked for another hour. It felt like we were old friends.

I was delighted that AMB hired Dick and that we became colleagues and workmates.

Dick Young was one of the finest, most ethical, and smartest men I have ever known, in the workplace or otherwise. He will be deeply missed in our household.

Sincerely,

J. Michael Hasenstab

Gary Blaylock said...

One of my favorite memories with Dick was having the opportunity to visit with him and listen to his stories. They were always entertaining and thought provoking. He told me about his years working for Howard Hughes. When my son was serving in Japan, he told me much about his mission in northern Japan and it helped me to understand my son's mission. His most enjoyable experiences, though, were with his family. He mentioned how much it meant to him that all of his children made an extraordinary effort to be together for family events - birthdays, baptisms, baby blessings, etc. He loved his family and was very proud of them.

Gary Blaylock

Nanette said...

I remember hearing that Dick told his return missionary sons that the biggest decision they should make in the first 6 months upon returning home should be what kind of cereal to eat.
We have counseled our return missionaries with Dick's advice.
We love you all and will miss Dick.
Sincerely,
Nanette, Frank and Family

Bruce Larsen said...

Kim,

I am not sure if you remember me, but this is Bruce Larsen from Burbank CA (I currently live outside of Salt Lake City UT in West Valley City UT). Even though I had lost track of him I have fond memories of Dick as we grew up together in Burbank. I believe his parents and mine knew each other even before Dick was born. Dick and my brother Lon were born on the same date, in the same hospital and, as I remember it, our mothers shared a hospital room.

I remember when our familes were neighbors (you and Dick and myself and Olga) in Burbank. Playing Church softball with him and winning the All-Church championship. Having him as my Elders Quorum President. He was a fine compasionate individual and am sure he will be missed by all who knew him, especially his family. Our heart-felt condolences to you and all his family.

Sincerely,
Bruce and Olga Larsen and family

Beverly Gray said...

I worked with Dick at the 1970 World's Fair in Osaka, Japan. This was the era when Dick was eating pretty much nothing but peanut butter in order to save up to get married. It was quickly clear that Dick was very smart, very kind, very funny, and had terrible luck. Whenever something could go wrong, it did. (For instance, we all were sent on homestays with Japanese families. But only Dick got out of a Japanese bathtub and discovered he was expected to make a speech to an eager group of Japanese who had been assembled by his host, a candidate for local office.) A fellow Expo guide and I used to nickname Dick "The Schlimazel," this being a Yiddish term for someone who is prone to misfortune. I guess his early passing could be considered an example of that. But it's quite clear that he had lots of love in his life, so I guess he was a very lucky man after all.

Beverly Gray

Jo said...

Dear sweet Dick was one of the best and most faithful Home Teachers our family has ever had. He always showed great love and caring to us. And it was obvious the love that he had for his family and especially for his sweet Kim. We will miss you, Dick.

Debbie said...

We will always remember Dick for his gentle sweet spirit. How he bore his testimony with such tenderness. Our son Elder Matt Lemmon said that he remembers Bro Young as a great teacher.
Jim & Debbie Lemmon

Carolyn said...

I have the privilege of being related to Dick. We enjoyed greeting each other as cousins and swapping stories about the ancestors. Dick was always pleasant to talk to, full of interesting information and good stories. He had a strong moral character. His honesty and ethics were impeccable. He has a strong testimony of the Savior.

Kim, I want to tell you again that you are one of my heroes. Your goodness, patience in adversity and unending faith have been a tremendous example to me.

The Kim family loves the Young family. We appreciate so much the way you and Dick welcomed our children into your home and cared
for them, whether it was making sticky buns or defending them from an ornery policewoman during the toilet paper caper. Our kids love your kids and consider them to be eternal friends. We send you our love, prayers and support, and are so grateful to count you as friends.

Love, Randy & Carolyn & the gang.

Anonymous said...

Dear Kim,

I am deeply saddened at Dick’s passing. I hope you, your
children, and grandchildren can find comfort in your
testimonies and good memories of Dick. I am happy he had
his family around him at his passing. I will not be able go
to the funeral, although I would like to attend.

Thank you so much for your EMAIL. I have been aware of
Dick’s serious condition for some time and always worried,
if something should happen, I would not be informed.

My relationship with Dick goes back to over 40 years to our
Mission days at West Branch in Tokyo in 1966. We also

worked together at the end of Dick’s mission at Ashigawa in

Hokkaido. We both came from the greater Los Angeles area in
California and were part of the culture. We both could

identify with Southern California sports and so easily

bonded from common experience, background and humor. Later
we roomed together at BYU.

I actually last met face-to-face with Dick over thirty-five
years ago, when he was attending Law School. Since then we

communicated loosely at times through annual Christmas

letters and over the past 10 years or so by EMAIL two or
three times a year most years.


Dick was one of only a few friends that spoke to my heart.

He was a loyal and tolerant friend. He expressed some
regrets about his lack of high achievement in worldly

pursuits. I think he was the only person holding this
view. Dick had a keen intellect and was quick witted. I

believe him a righteous man who stood as an example and

beacon of light to me in times trouble.

Jim Cundiff

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Conan Grames said...

I worked with Dick as a missionary for the Mormon Church in Japan from 1966-1967. He was so well respected, but at the same time he was fun to be with and always lit up the room. I worked with him again at the World's Fair in Osaka, Japan, in 1970. What a great friend and example he was. I cannot think about Dick without having a smile come to my face.

Conan Grames
Draper, Utah

Rick said...

I am saddened to learn of Dick's death. He was a kind man and a wonderful example. His greatest creations (his family) and he had a profound impact on my family and me as we served together during those golden years of the Brookfield Ward. I will always remember and cherish the memories. Thanks for your love and unselfish service.

Rick Nettesheim

Anonymous said...

I had the privilege of working with Dick Young as he served as General Counsel at the Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards. We spent many years there together, improving the disciplinary process for those individuals charged with ethical violations of the code and for those filing charges. We also protected the trademarks and service marks we owned in the US and around the world. Dick was instrumental in advancing this field of personal financial planning based upon common standards within the US and around the world. My wife Connie and I were on several trips with Dick and Kim, including to Japan, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, and Europe where we made lots of professional friends and colleagues. We are grateful for his friendship and personal dedication. Our feelings are tender at his passing.

Bob and Connie Goss
American Fork, UT

Greg Koneval said...

Kim and family,

Dick Young was an amazing man - he was a much beloved friend, mentor and role model to whom I turned to for guidance during our days on the Platte River Academy Governing Board.
Truly a kind and understanding soul, Dick stood firm on his admirable and unshakeable ethical standards. It was through his strong commitment to do the right thing - no matter how unpopular - and with his thoughful, gentle persuasion, Dick helped guide PRA through some very difficult situations which benefited everyone at PRA.
I want you to know how much I appreciate all Dick taught me and how honored I feel to have known and spent time with him. Dick was a shining star - he will be greatly missed and will always hold a special place in my heart.
With our deepest sympathy and love, Greg, Mardie, Amber, Zachery and Julia Koneval.

Anna said...

Bro. Young was my Sunday school teacher for a little while. Doree and I had a way of driving every Sunday school teacher we had a little crazy, but Bro. Young loved us anyways. He called us Frick and Frack and joked around with all the teenagers. We loved his lessons and sense of humor and could feel his genuine concern for our spiritual welfare. He will be greatly missed.

Honey said...

Every now and then you have a moment you know you will remember forever. I had one of those moments one day in the home of Dean and Joy. Dick said something to me that was so remarkable that I knew I would always remember his comment and the way he looked and the way I felt when he said it. The reason it meant so much is because I hold him is such very high regard. Thanks, Dick.

Honey said...

Sorry, I forgot I'm "Honey" on blogs. Thanks Dick. from Helen L.

Misty said...

I, personally, do not have any memories of your dad that stick out to me. However, I do know that he would, on occasion, let young women sleep in your bed (me)! =)

Something funny I thought you would appreciate is I was talking to Randy the other day about your family and he mentioned how Dick would sometimes come talk to him about Andrew's dream woman. He was a bit concerned that Andrew was "determined" to marry a 6 foot black woman in order to have athletic children! We had a good chuckle. He will be missed! We continue to keep your family in our prayers!

Kim said...

Just wanted to see if I could leave a comment since I have had several friends tell me that they were not able to leave a comment.

I miss you, Dick!

Kat Green said...

Hi Kim. I am a late-comer to your son's blog, but only learned about your loss yesterday, reading the BYU Magazine on the bus on my way home from work. I'm sure you will remember that Dick was our Riviera family father our sophomore year at BYU. He was exactly the right person for the role. Your good friends Carrol Jorgensen Hanson, Danna Briggs Green and Judy Walker-- uh-- Taylor, right? were such sweet, good girls, and of course Teri Thayer and I were mavericks-- but we all adored Dick.
It was impossible not to love, admire and trust him. I vividly remember him lamenting that he wished he had your GPA. :) You were both exemplary, bright, disciplined people, and you and Dick made a fine couple. I'm sorry you are now having to wait a while to see him again. I hope your kids are taking good care of you.

Kathy Cox Green

Unknown said...

Hello,

My comment comes almost a year after Dick's death. I just today found out about it while searching some Burbank High info. I had spoken with him in 2009 and I knew his health was poor, but finding the obituary inforamtion still hit me like a brick.

I knew Dick from the 5th grade on. We both attendwd Jefferson, Muir and Burbank High. We lived just over a block from each other. As others have said Dick Young was one of the most decent kindest people it is possible to meet.

I didn't see Dick for many, many years, but we managed to at least keep in sporadic touch with each other.

When he worked for Hughes he was able to get my then wife and I and her father and his wife comps to see the Wayne Newton show in Vegas because her father was a retired colonel from the Philippines. He came thru big time! We wr in the first row. We didn't have to pay for the show or the meals. He did ask me to leave a good tip so he wouldn't look bad. Hey! Was he calling me cheap? Anyhow, I left a $45 tip for just under $200 in charges, so I think the staff made a good report on me!

I will share a little story that i remember. Dick was one day older than I. But I was always a bigger kid. (I am now 6' 3 1/2" tall). At the age of 13 IIRC we went trick or treating together in what would be the last time doing that for both of us. Near the end of our candy gathering festivities we knocked on a door. An old lady answered. She said she was almost out of candy. She had just one big treat remaining and a small one. She gave the big one to me because (she said) I was older. Dick was really steamed for the rest of the evening. He kept mumbling that he was older.

Dick, i hope you have access to all kinds of candy now. I will always remember your friendship.

Jim Lyons
Currently living in Panama City, Panama.

Kim said...

Jim,
I am so glad that you have reappeared. You were the only one of Dick's friends that I could not figure out how to contact after he died and that made me sad. I am sorry that you found out a year later but I am glad that you know. My email address is kimmer1222@gmail.com if you want to contact me. It would be nice to hear what you are up to in Panama. You do get around. Thanks so much for posting your comment on our blog. I really appreciated your fun story.
Kim

Unknown said...

I am embarrassed by the time it has taken me to comment. Dick was my first junior companion in Muroran, Japan, when he was a greenie. He was wonderful! He had such energy and excitement. Dick loved the Dodgers so much that his parents would send him daily clippings. Without Dick's knowledge I wrote to his folks and ask them to only write once a week instead of daily so he could focus on the work.

He was a wonderful sport. Not very missionary like, but I called him Little Dickie, and I was Willy to him. We would often get up at 5:00AM to study the language together. He love Japan and the people. Muroran was a difficult place. We were a new companionship and began with no investigators. We tracked all day everyday for three months, and somehow we were both blessed and loved it despite our lack of success.

Dick and I remained close through out the years. I spoken so often of him my entire family knows who Little Dickie was.

He will always be love by his family, but he will also hold a special place in hearts of all those who knew and loved him.

Bill Johnston